Thank you so so much for being so comprehensive and helpful you have no idea how grateful I am, I did Google it but it was more that I just wanted to ask the advice of someone who I know has lived there for a while and might have a more developed sense of how things work, I understand it must be frustrating. .. I'm really sorry! But thank you so much, it's just comforting to ask a real life person. Don't worry about publishing, I can't thank you enough for taking so much time for a stranger!
sorry I was cranky before, I’m usually not one who likes to talk to real life people, I always hope for an automated line or an online site to do such things. I forget others like to talk to people and that thought didn’t occur to me. it sort of boggled my mind that someone would come to me for advice on this.
I don’t have any personal experience on how it works here, as I haven’t had to go to any clinics for any reason. I can’t give any advice personally on any of these matters, especially because I can’t get laid, let alone a date, in asia anyway.
in all seriousness, whatever you are going through will make you stronger and no one will fuck with you ever again. you will be ok, there is always someone out there to help.
I was also recommended this place as a clinic up near ikebukuro:
take care of yourself!